Why Do Men Crave Bondage

My friend Dalton Ott over at Serious Male Bondage has posted a great article on the Serious Male Bondage Journal about men’s motives and desires to be bound by other men.  He does a very well job defining many of the reasons why I generally prefer to be tied up by guys vs. girls.  Power exchange, enforced isolation, and defenseless intimacy are only some of the things he mentions that I must agree with.

In my career, I have to be very dominant most of the time.  Directing mostly male engineers with $100,000 egos requires that kind of attitude to be successful.  But when I get home at the end of the day, I would rather be attacked my group of bondage buddies, stripped out of my suit and forced to put on one of my skin tight body suits, get tied down to my bed in an tight and inescapable spreadeagle, and left there for a few hours while my friends casually sit around and do erotic things to my body as we chat about the crazy things going on in our lives.  I’m much more comfortable sharing some of my more intimate feelings with these guys when I’m tied down like this.  Not sure why that is, but I’ve learned that I don’t really care.  I feel empowered to be intimate when I’m in inescapable bondage like this.  That’s why I crave bondage.  It gives me a break from the real world, and let’s me be who I really want to be without having to worry about jockeying for position with other Alpha Males who surround me in my real world.

You guys should go take a look at Dalton’s article.  I think there is something in there that you will identify with.

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